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PARENT JOURNEY

I'm worried about online risks


A guide to understanding the risks, spotting the warning signs and knowing how to talk to your child about them without panicking.

Cyberbullying, shocking content, identity theft, scams, unsolicited approaches. Many parents feel that risks exist, without always knowing which ones are most likely, how to identify them, or how to react. This course was designed to help them understand, prevent, and act with simple guidelines.

Understand / Spot / Prevent / Take action
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COURSE SUMMARY

In this course, you will find

01

Guidelines for identifying major online risks.

02

Specific signs to look out for in your child.

03

Tips for discussing risks without over-dramatising the situation.

04

Useful first steps to take if a problem arises.

05

Awareness-raising resources from Advens for People and Planet.

06

Practical resources to help you better protect your child.

07

The basics you need to teach your child about privacy and passwords.

08

Simple steps to turn concern into action.

RISK MAPPING

Online risks do not form a single entity

Understanding the five main categories helps you get a clearer picture of what is at stake.
01

Risks among children and teenagers

Conversations that get out of hand, teasing, exclusion, peer pressure.
Cyberstalking Groups that get out of control
02

Risks associated with content

Shocking, inappropriate or violent images, videos or messages received or viewed.
Shocking content Misinformation
03

Risks associated with strangers

Scams, manipulation, and suspicious approaches from outsiders.
Phishing Requests
04

Privacy risks

Personal data exposed, identity theft, unauthorised sharing.
Identity theft Overexposure
05

Risks associated with hyperconnectivity

Peer pressure, fear of missing out, constant demands.
Social pressure fear of missing out
MOST FREQUENT RISKS

Eight risks to know about

Not all of them occur with the same intensity, but they are worth knowing about.

VIGILANCE
ALERT
REVIEW
REVIEW

Cyberstalking

Mockery, exclusion, repeated pressure via messaging apps.

ALERT

Shocking content

Inappropriate images or videos received or viewed.

ALERT

Groups that get out of control

Classroom or group discussions that turn into conflict.

VIGILANCE

Misinformation

Manipulation, rumors, false content.

REVIEW

Phishing and scams

Fraudulent links, misleading messages, requests for money.

REVIEW

Identity theft

Non-consensual sharing of photos, fake accounts, identity theft.

VIGILANCE

Weak Passwords

Simple, reused, exposed passwords.

ALERT

Overexposure of private life

Personal data unnecessarily shared online.

OUR STUDY
97%

parents consider that the use of the Internet and social networks by children presents a real risk.

OpinionWay survey for The Phone – Sample of 1,004 parents of children aged 6 to 14

SPOT

Warning signs

A risk is not always visibly apparent

Nevertheless, some subtle signs in your child may draw your attention. Here they are:

More secretive with his phone

Nervousness after certain messages

Loss of motivation to go to class

Disturbed sleep

Quick screen deletions

Fear of missing a trade

Unusual decline

Notification-related agitation

PARENTING STYLE

Talking about risks without giving in to constant fear

Five attitudes to adopt to open a dialogue peacefully.
01
Explain
What can happen, without dramatizing.
02
Reassure
Remind him that he is not alone.
03
Welcome
Tell him he can come and talk about it.
04
To elaborate
Distinguish probable risks from extreme scenarios.
05
Transmit
Give a few simple tips.
OUR STUDY
90%

parents are in favor of banning access to social media for children under 15.

OpinionWay survey for The Phone – Sample of 1,004 parents of children aged 6 to 14

CYBERHARASSMENT

Spot, Say, Do

Cyberbullying can take several forms: repeated taunts, exclusion, image sharing, and pressure via messaging. Faced with such situations, a three-step action plan structures the response.
01 — IDENTIFY

Observe the signals

  • Behavioral Changes
  • Sudden isolation
  • Refusal to go to class
02 — SAY

To open the floor

  • Listen without minimizing
  • Reassure without trivializing
  • Do not respond emotionally
03 — TO DO

Take concrete action

  • Retaining Evidence
  • Report to platforms
  • Contact school and support services
The most important thing is to show the child that they don't have to bear this alone.
In a situation of cyberbullying, here are 5 essential steps to take immediately.
Warning
These reflexes should be applied from the first signs of cyberbullying.
  • 1
    Do not respond to provocations
    Responding can exacerbate the situation and give the aggressor satisfaction.
  • 2
    Take screenshots
    Keep all evidence: messages, photos, comments with dates and times.
  • 3
    Block and report
    Use the blocking and reporting tools on each platform concerned.
  • 4
    Talk to a trusted adult
    Parents, teachers, and CPEs: don't face this situation alone.
  • 5
    Contact support facilities
    3018 (national helpline), e-Enfance, and specialized organizations are available to assist you.
PRIVACY AND PASSWORDS

Key takeaways

A few simple actions have a great protective effect.
INCORRECT PASSWORD
123456
password
firstnamedate
Easy to guess, reused everywhere.
GOOD PASSWORD
T#r8!Fq2$kL
Long, random, unique to each account.
One password per account
At least 12 characters
Mix letters, numbers, symbols
Enable two-factor authentication
CONTINUE THE JOURNEY

Move from worry to action

Understanding online risks doesn't mean living in fear, but knowing what to look for, what to say, and what to do. Reconnected Family has been designed to help you protect your child with method, calm, and clarity.

You are not alone. You don't need to be an expert. There is no single answer.

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